Have you ever wondered, for better or worse, why people come into your life, and why some relationships keep repeating themselves?
The only constant in this life is change. Life is alive. The planet Earth is alive. People are alive. Part of this being alive on this living planet, is that change is part of every moment. We are constantly learning. Sometimes our feelings change, depending on what we know at the time. What we know at any given time is also changing.
We are part of a much bigger dynamic. We can think of ourselves as physical beings having a spiritual experience. We can think of ourselves as emotional beings having a spiritual experience. We can think of ourselves as a spiritual being having a physical and emotional experience. All are true. There are many parts of the essence of our being. All of it is changeable.
Now imagine you and I are not the only ones who are changing. All of this change on every level, is happening to every human being on the planet, in addition to the planet changing with global warming, changing oxygen and ozone levels and environmental and atmospheric levels.
Then one day, we are drawn to a particular person, or place. We go on vacation and meet interesting people, or we take a class and have a deep connection with like-minded people. We have an accident, and someone is there to help us in some way. Not all of these people are good for us, for one reason or another. Yet here they are in our lives. Why?
We are human beings with vibrational frequencies. Our thoughts have frequencies. Our attitudes have frequencies. Our words have frequencies and our actions have frequencies. All of these energetic frequencies have a magnetic draw. Sometime we have full awareness of the frequency we are giving out. When we are dating, we are dressing, acting, inferring and thinking in ways that grab the attention of others who are looking to receive such frequencies.
Even if we are a person with a closed, quiet, shy and demure personality, words and actions, we are still sending out signals in alignment with our general frequency, intentional and unintentional.
The people who come into our lives are pure gifts, all of them, even if we later judge them to be bad for us. This is a life lesson learned. We need to stop being so hard on ourselves. We make the decisions we make in our lives based on what we know at the time. Some of the people in our lives are a tremendous benefit to us, and resonate deeply with our hearts. Through it all, we live and learn, and grow in character. Some of us are faster learners. Others of us take our time.
Maybe we have to learn how to love. Maybe we have to learn how to forgive. Maybe we need to move past guilt. Maybe we need to learn how to receive, and treasure the good things, or the simple things.
We only get one life. We cannot un-live our life. Let’s make our life beautiful.